Shopping Strategies
Personally I would NEVER (did I say that strongly enough?) go to the Mall with my challenging child. Of course, mall shopping is not one of my favorite things to do either. When you combine a sensory challenged child with a cranky parent, well, let’s just say the two don’t mix.
However, I am aware that shopping with our children is sometimes a necessity during the holidays. So, for those of you who must take the little darlings, here are several suggestions from Terri Mauro at About.com: Parenting Special Needs.
1. Set a time limit: Figure out how long your child can control her behavior in the noisy, active, distracting environment of a shopping mall. Subtract 10 minutes.
2. Make a plan: Figure out what you can reasonably do within the time limit you've set. Be realistic.
3. Pack supplies: If you have a bag of tricks for your child, make sure it's in your purse or pack
4. Bring a friend: Don't shop with your kids and no other adult support.
5. Have an escape route. (Do you really need an explanation for this one?)
For more details, read Terri's article Before You Go to the Mall with Your Child.
Do you have shopping strategies? Share them in the comment section or send me an e-mail.
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Comments
I solved the shopping problem...I didn't go! I taught one of my daughters how to play cribbage instead!
Posted by: SpokaneMama | November 24, 2007 7:16 AM
I always wonder about people when I go to the mall and see tons of parents (usually women) hanging out with their children. Maybe it is because I need a snack and an escape plan when I go to such places (they make me anxious) but I can't imagine they are that great of a place to be for children. My hope is to have to bring the kids to the mall as little as possible - whether they are considered challenged or not. I know it won't always be avoidable but if it isn't a fun way for me to spend a day I imagine it is worse for them.
Posted by: melanie | November 24, 2007 7:41 AM
Good ideas. Sometimes we get so caught up in what we are doing, we forget to plan right. It can make it such a better experience though.
Posted by: Melinda | November 27, 2007 11:19 AM
The last couple of years I have done the majority of my Christmas shopping in malls that have stayed open all night - you can get so much done without the crowds. I would not suggest it for those who cannot catch up on the lost sleep though!
Posted by: Sueblimely | November 27, 2007 5:09 PM