A Homework Question
Even though the holidays are upon us, our children still must struggle through their homework. In fact, for challenging children, homework during December is even more difficult than other times of the year. So this week, we dedicate our Blog to Homework!
Q: My child wants to park himself in the family room and play loud music while he does his homework. I think he should sit quietly at his desk in his room so that he can focus. Who's right?
A: It really is not a question of who's right, but instead, how can you set the stage for your child to complete his homework without nightly battles. Look at the bigger picture here. Ask yourself what can I do to create an environment for my child to succeed in. This is your goal.
You'll want to consider your child's individual learning style; the environmental preferences that help him to concentrate, and the essential strategies that will set the stage for success. Some children focus better when they are listening to music and are in the midst of family functions. Other's need complete silence, free from visual distractions. What does your child need? You may be on one end of the scale and your child on the other. Pay attention to what his learning needs are and help set up a successful environment.
If his steps toward success are impacting you in a negative way (his loud music is not calming for you!), you can ask that he wear head phones. If he needs to sprawl instead of sitting at a desk or table, ask that he move to an area where you are not impacted by him. Remember to appreciate and acknowledge his strengths and abilities, and yours!
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