Create a summer plan that works for your family by Mary Scribner
What we call summer “vacation” is right around the corner. If you’re like most parents with challenging children, “free” time for your child is a mixed blessing. Yes, it is a relief to stop badgering Bonnie to start her homework or endlessly encouraging Ethan to stop agonizing over his school performance. It’s time for a break – for everyone.
Though this easing up of school pressure seems like a lighter load, lack of structure, routines, and rituals can upset your child’s balance and put him at odds with his world … and you. Sometimes, the stress caused by changing routines results in a myriad of unpredictable behaviors that can be difficult for the whole family.
One way to minimize the stress of summer is to create a summer plan that works for your family. Here's how:
1. Hold a family meeting to discuss the summer.
2. Bring a basket filled with goodies; a blanket and cookies atop the living room rug works well.
3. Have everyone dream about what they’d like to do this summer. Brainstorm.
4. Make a list and then pick and choose what is realistic for everyone.
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