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February 15, 2008

Single Parent Strategies from Naomi

Earlier this month, we announced our newest feature: Single Parenting. Both on the Blog and on the Web site, we'll share the stories of single parents who often deal with the daily challenges of parenting all on their own. Some of their stories provide an inspiration to those of us in a parenting relationship. Other stories show the difficulty of "going it alone." And still others point to the fact that "this isn't how it was supposed to be." Not only is parenting not what they expected, neither is life.

Today we welcome back Naomi from Tales of a Single Parent.

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Here are Naomi's words of advice:

The one thing I have learned about being a parent is that you must always be an advocate for your child(ren). It is one of the most important things we can do as parents. Being an advocate for your child(ren) is being that bigger stronger voice. I have also learned that being an advocate is not always easy. It is sometimes draining, stressful and frustrating, but as my good friend always says; when right - fight.

When I was in school, my mother never let anything just slide. If I was treated unfairly or mistreated in any way, she would write a letter to the adminstration or the school board and get the issue resolved. So in respects to being an advocate for my own children, I certainly learned from the best.

Your child(ren) may need support for a learning disability, they may need tutoring, they may have been passed down an unfair school suspension, a teacher or administrator may act crude towards them; whatever the issue is, it is important to know and understand that you have the right to voice your opinion and to seek a resolution. When right - fight........

Read Naomi's other Blog entry titled Challenging Children and the Single Parent printed earlier this month on A Wild Ride: The Blog.

Personally I'm a big fan of Naomi's podcasts. Check them out on Tales of a Single Parent.

January 28, 2008

Challenging children and the single parent

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Recently I went back to work as a consultant. Nice work if I can get it. It allows me to work flexible hours so that I can take my son to doctor appointments or music therapy. Problem is, those flexible hours translate into hours at night and on the weekend, checking email, researching on the Internet, returning phone calls, etc.

But I have an advantage. I'm not a single parent. For those who are single parents, the consequences of inattention are far greater.

This week, we announce the return of Naomi from Tales of a Single Parent. Naomi promises to become one of our regular contributors to Single Parenting, a new feature to the A Wild Ride Web site starting in February.

My thought is parents in general are working harder than ever and have huge family responsibilities and many single parents have side businesses to make extra money. Our kids are essentially work orphans. If it weren't the BlackBerry, it would be regular old email on the computer or paperwork from the office, so either way you slice it; work sometimes puts us in a position where we orphan our kids; not intentionally though - it's just part of being in the rat race. Things occur without you really noticing they have happened.

I believe the key is balance. Unless you've struck it rich and all of a sudden have a major check coming your way (if you do I totally envy you and I DO accept donations) we all have to work to pay bills and to take care of our family. But we can add more balance to our lives so that we don't allow work/smartphones to contribute to orphaning our kids.

If you have made your kids BlackBerry Orphans, make a pledge to yourself to find and add more balance to your life and learn to TURN OFF THE FREAKIN' BLACKBERRY!!! (heck, if I can do it anyone can).

Don't worry; your kids still love you.

Naomi 'GeekyCyberMom', a single mom of 2 gorgeous girls, an all around geeky tech girl, social media enthusiast and technology & creative marketing consultant. Naomi is also the creator/host/producer of Tales of a Single Parent Podcast, the founder and manager of the blogs - GeekyCyberMom, Fearless TEK and Tales of a Single Parent.

To stay updated on all projects Naomi is working on visit GeekyCyberMom.

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